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Sexpenditure by Gbemi Akindejoye  WHY SEX IS REFERRED TO AS “MAKING LOVE”

Sexpenditure by Gbemi Akindejoye WHY SEX IS REFERRED TO AS “MAKING LOVE”

WHY SEX IS REFERRED TO AS “MAKING LOVE”
After all, if sex was purely about two people reaching orgasm, then we would more natur­ally engage in activ­ities that involve more direct genital stim­u­la­tion. Inter­course is a natural progres­sion from kissing to a man capit­al­ising on his sexual arousal to ‘make love’ to a woman.The hetero­sexual act of vaginal inter­course is designed fore­most as an expres­sion of love between a man and a woman.
When a woman is amen­able to accepting a man’s sexual initi­ative, inter­course allows her body to provide him with the sexual release of orgasm.
Penet­ra­tion provides the maximum turn-on for a man and signi­fies a high level of trust and intimacy between two people. Inter­course repres­ents the most personal accept­ance that a woman can offer that can be emotion­ally rewarding for a man (espe­cially if her sexual accept­ance is awarded sparingly).
“Although we may use orgasm as a measure of the frequency of female activity, and may emphasize the signi­fic­ance of orgasm as a source of physiologic outlet and of social inter­change for the female, it must always be under­stood that we are well aware that this is not the only signi­ficant part of a satis­factory sexual relationship.
This is much more true for the female than it would be for the male. It is incon­ceiv­able that males who are not reaching orgasm would continue their marital coitus for any length of time.” (p371 Sexual beha­vior in the human female 1953)
Many women see sex as a loving and sensual act with a man they love. The vast majority of women are not inter­ested in the erot­i­cism and phys­ical sex play (focused on genital stim­u­la­tion) that would lead to their own sexual arousal and orgasm.
The sexual revolu­tion implied that women’s sexu­ality could become more like men’s simply as a result of a change in atti­tudes. In fact, many women settled for faking orgasm to keep men happy rather than being motiv­ated to reach orgasm with a partner.
Gbemi can be reached on 08120113345 and she runs a leading sextoy company

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