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How to give good blow jobs
There are two things I think are really sad about women and blow-jobs.
1 – A lot of women don’t like giving them.
2 – A lot of women are scared of giving them because they don’t know how to give good blow-jobs.
Why don’t some women like giving them and what can be done about it
The man’s cock might be unclean.
They might not like having cum in their mouth.
They might think it’s dirty or slutty in some way.
The first one is simple to sort out. If you are confident enough then you can just tell your man if he wants more blow-jobs he needs to wash his dick.
But if you aren’t confident then a nice trick is to wait until he gets out of the shower, or ask him if he want’s to take a shower with you, then you can make sure he is nice and clean before you drop to your knees! 🙂
While some love it when a man cum’s in their mouths I totally get that others might not like it! My advice for this one is to make a deal with him before you start. Tell him he can have lots of lovely blowjobs as long as he always tells you just before he cums so you don’t have to taste his cum.
If you think it is dirty to suck his dick my heart goes out to you. Doctors will tell you there is no hygiene risk from sucking him off and it can be so much fun once you let go of this.
If you think it is slutty in some way, again my heart goes out to you. I strongly believe that we have bodies with sexual organs so we can use them for fun and enjoyment. If men, other women or society in general have conditioned you to feel guilty about enjoying sex that’s a great shame.
My advice would be to read some books on sexuality, talk to your more open-minded friends and if your issues cause you deep emotional stress get some professional help.
BUT if possible just call the bluffs of anyone who judges you for enjoying sex, they are either jealous or feeling guilty about their own desires and as such have no right to judge you
So what if you want to give good blow-jobs but don’t know how?
Here are my top ten tips to help you give good blow-jobs
Make sure he is clean if it’s important to you. Trust me there aren’t many men who would mind washing their cock if it means they will get a blow job for being a good boy!
If you don’t feel confident just fake it until you make it. I know it can feel scary at first, but put your best face on, relax, take a deep breath and go for it…IT’S NOT THAT HARD (pun intended 😉 )
Make sure his cock is wet and slidey. Saliva works wonders for this so make sure you have a drink handy to keep your mouth nice and moist.
Don’t just use your mouth get your hands involved as well. Tickle his balls, squeeze them, cup them in the palms of your hand. Stroke his belly or run your hands along his legs. If you are feeling really naughty slip your hand around and tickle his butt hole.
Start off gently, don’t suck straight away, lick up and down, tease the head. Build anticipation and watch him squirm.
You would find it is easiest if you hold the base of his cock with one hand while you suck him off but sometimes it’s fun to let it flop about while you chase it with your mouth. Have fun with it, when he sees you enjoying yourself it will turn him on even more.
Put it in your mouth and suck on it like you suck on a lollipop, . If you just keep sucking up and down his dick like this he will cum and he will love it!
When you want him to cum suck harder and start to move your mouth up and down faster and faster.
If you get tired use your hands more to go up and down his shaft and keep your mouth around his head so you can rest your neck. Sometimes blow on the tip or spit on it (Guys LOVE this).
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